Here’s the thing about secrets: they being pressure-cookers for powerful feelings.

Here’s the thing about secrets: they being pressure-cookers for powerful feelings.

The greater number of one feels as though he/she shouldn’t be doing some thing, the greater embarrassment the individual can experience. In place of offering as a motivator to get rid of actions, shame becomes paralyzing. In partnerships where an information try at long last expose, partners may angle into feedback loops for which they react to one another and raise one other person’s anxiety, often without getting able to self-regulate their. This will reinforce emotions of pity and punish partners for wanting to face uncomfortable information head-on. (Pokračování textu…)